Does a property exist that makes the top most row in a grid selected whenever a grid is loaded or refreshed?
No, there's no property for this. The grid will never automatically select a row. But it does automatically keep the ActiveRow in synch with the data source. So if the first row in the grid appears selected and you don't want it to, you probably need to reset the grid.DisplayLayout.Override.ActiveRowAppearance and ActiveCellAppearance.