After we install 2033 hot-fix (instead of 2013, which was removed from download section) toolbar buttons became more wide. By code we understand that for OfficeXP style button tools reserve additional shadow space, but we dont want this feature and need support previous buttons width. How we can implement this?
The tools were widened as part of a bug fix with alignments in the OfficeXP style. There is no way to 'disable' the bug fix, but you can try to use a creation filter to resize your tool's element. However, I would not recommend it as there are many elements within the tools which would also need to be shifted or resized. I would instead recommend trying to use a different style or changing your application so it doesn't rely on the smaller tool widths.