Hi
As the subject says, I select a date and it is highlighted, when the control losses focus there is no indication which date is selected.
thanks
Martin
I tested this out and the selected item(s) change to gray when the xamMonthCalendar loses focus. I looked at the default style and it looks like its using SystemColors.ControlLight which doesn't seem right - it probably should be a custom brush key. Maybe that color is the same as your background color.
I have changed color scheme and monitors and I can now see a light gray background when not in focus. too light for me so it has been a worth while exercise using the Item style
thanks for the help