Hi,
I want to style the header of each tabitem in tabgrouppane so that it looks like the attached screenshot
how can I do this?
You would need to create a custom Style and Template for the PaneTabItem and put that in the application's resources (or that of the xamdockmanager/ancestor but then if you want it to affect the floating tabgroups as well you would also need to hook the ToolWindowLoaded event and add it to the resources of the ToolWindow). You can copy the xaml we provide in the DefaultStyles folder as a starting point for your custom template.