The mentioned functionality already exist, if you are using UltraComboEditor, like a EditorComponent in the grid`s column, but using UltraComboEditor, you could have only one column into your dropdown list. So if you need to have more columns, we could use UltraCombo, but there doesn`t exist highlight functionality.
One possible way to solve this task, could be if you are using CreationFilter and override of our UltraCombo control.
Please take a look at the attached sample and video file for more details and let me know if you have any questions.
Regards
Here is the video file
This is the sample: